Afternoon tea is more than just a midday indulgence - it’s a timeless celebration of elegance, charm, and refined style. Whether you’re heading to a garden gathering, high tea at a luxury hotel, or a formal bridal shower, what you wear is just as important as the RSVP. At ASHLEYlauren, we believe every tea party moment deserves a picture-perfect outfit.
From whimsical minis to sculpted gowns and statement floral details, our occasionwear brings high fashion to your most elegant afternoons. Below, discover the ASHLEYlauren guide to tea party dressing - featuring outfit inspiration for every theme, styling tips, and the dreamiest dresses to make your entrance unforgettable.
What to Expect at a Tea Party Tea parties may have Victorian roots, but today they blend tradition with modern flair. From bridal showers and garden birthdays to upscale luncheons and fundraising events, the dress code is polished, feminine, and always on the graceful side.
Most tea parties are held during the day, which means soft hues, breezy fabrics, and elegant silhouettes reign supreme. Florals, lace, pastels, and classic cuts are all in play, with midi and mini lengths depending on the occasion.
Tea Party Themes & Outfit Ideas
Garden Party Glam
There’s nothing more idyllic than sipping tea under the sun, surrounded by florals. For garden parties, opt for romantic mini dresses with floral embellishments, pastel tones, and twirl-worthy skirts.
Style 4818: A whimsical glitter tulle mini with 3D floral appliqués, ruched bodice, and flared skirt. The perfect dreamy look for spring garden affairs.
Style 4817: Off-the-shoulder glitter tulle mini with sweetheart neckline and floral sleeves. Feminine and fairy-tale ready.
Style 4871: Strapless velvet mini with floral appliqué and corset bodice. The voluminous skirt adds drama with charm.
Shop 4871 - available in 2 colorsStyle E4914: One-shoulder Mikado mini in ivory, featuring dimensional florals and a flared A-line silhouette. Ideal for bridal tea parties.
Style Tip: Pair with low block heels, a top-handle bag, and a flower-adorned headband for peak garden goddess energy.
High Tea Elegance
High tea calls for a slightly more tailored, classic look. Think modest necklines, structured fabrics, and refined embellishments.
Style 4832: Satin mini with bold floral puff sleeves and sweetheart neckline. The fitted silhouette keeps things polished.
Style 4852: Strapless lace appliqué mini with semi-sheer bodice and detailed overlay. Romantic yet sophisticated.
Style 11203: Beaded long sleeve gown with intricate floral patterns and a high neckline. Understated glamour.
Style E4908: Satin midi with off-shoulder sweetheart neckline and cascading floral appliqué. Timeless and chic.
Style Tip: Accessorize with a low bun, pearl earrings, and satin heels for ultimate high tea refinement.
Vintage-Inspired Flair
For themed tea parties or vintage-inspired events, channel retro silhouettes with modern craftsmanship.
Style 4814: One-shoulder satin dress with oversized florals on the shoulder and hip. A glamorous nod to mid-century femininity.
Style E4920: A satin mini dress with rhinestone seam detailing, a flirty A-line skirt, and a dramatic oversized bow accent at the back - perfect for a 1950s vibe.
Style E4909: A refined satin mini dress featuring a sculpted strapless neckline, chic side sash, and shimmering brooch detail - perfect for cocktail hours and elegant soirées.
Style Tip: Add cat-eye sunglasses, a mini top-handle bag, and soft curls for a polished retro look.
Formal Tea Occasions
For upscale afternoon events or dressier venues, go long and luxurious with full-length gowns or more sculpted cocktail attire.
Style 11202: A one-shoulder sequin gown with an asymmetrical keyhole neckline and cascading multicolored floral embellishments. Finished with a thigh-high slit for a modern, statement-making silhouette.
Style 4841: This form-fitting crepe and taffeta dress is all about balance - sleek structure meets voluminous ruffled sleeves for high drama at any formal event.
Style E4916: Stun with oversized ruffle sleeves, a wrap-effect sweetheart neckline, and a tie waist detail - crafted in structured Mikado for red carpet-worthy sophistication.
Style E4915: A sleek sophistication with a playful twist. Crafted in stretch scuba, this knee-length one-shoulder dress features an oversized bow for maximum impact and a flattering, contoured silhouette.
Style Tip: Keep accessories understated - a dainty clutch, drop earrings, and soft makeup are all you need.
Tea Party Dress Code Do’s & Don’ts
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Choose pastel, floral, or soft-toned dresses
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Opt for midi or mini lengths
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Pick structured silhouettes or soft A-lines
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Wear dressy flats or low block heels
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Add delicate jewelry and tasteful headwear
Styling Tips & Accessories
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Shoes: Low block heels, slingbacks, ballet flats, or classic Mary Janes in neutral or pastel shades.
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Bags: Mini top-handle bags, structured clutches, or small crossbody purses in matching tones.
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Hats & Hair: Think vintage-inspired fascinators, floral clips, or dainty headbands. Keep hair soft and styled—waves, buns, and low ponytails work beautifully.
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Jewelry: Stick to pearls, dainty gold chains, or small drop earrings. Anything delicate and timeless.
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Beauty: Keep it soft and glowy. Think rosy blush, dewy skin, and a subtle lip stain.
Final Thoughts With ASHLEYlauren, tea party dressing becomes an occasion in itself. From whimsical minis to sophisticated gowns, each look is crafted to make you feel polished, poised, and unforgettable.
Explore the full Tea Party Edit on ASHLEYlauren.com and discover the perfect look for your next elegant affair.
